Life of honeypoison...

Full moon – today

honeypoison76 — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 20:45:20 +0000

The Biochemical Reaction
Just about all the air we breathe has some quantity of Aero-Ions. Ions are charged particles in the air (between a few hundred to a few thousand per cubic centimeter). Some ions are negatively charged (Negative Ions) and some positively charged (Positive Ions). After years of research around the world, Ion Scientists have determined over and over that an imbalance in the ratio between Positive and Negative Ions has a profound effect on both our mental and physical well being.
If we breathe large amounts of positive ions without an equal amount of negative ions, we will actually become lethargic and in some cases sick (high positive ion concentrations in the air are associated with the full moon). Air containing more negative ions and fewer positive ions has shown to be beneficial and without side effects. That is why negative ion generators are sold around the world.

“75% of the general population react favorably to negative ions but are adversely affected by positive ions, while the other 25% react in the opposite way, finding higher positive ion days euphoric and higher negative ion days boring” – stated in a study. These people compensate for the stress caused by positive ions with sufficient adrenaline production.
In other words, 75% of the general population goes into different ranges of depression and 25% become hyperactive. We are all affected somewhat by higher positive ion ratios. There are no side effects from negative ions.

It is interesting to see whether you are sensitive to full moon or not (of course like always there are contrary views, which are stating there is no effect of full moon), and if yes how is it influencing you, its all about self awareness to make it towards freedom, we need to understand what is going on with us in our soul, mind and body before we can try to influence it.

Take care,

Freedom comes from….

honeypoison76 — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 21:44:45 +0000

Freedom is “what you do with what’s been done to you” – says Jean Paul Sartre; and how true it is, we can not really influence how others are acting but we indeed can how we react. One of a good friend of mine asked me some days ago, where is your extreme needs of freedom comes from? So i tried to understand and I think there are several ways we can approach it…. When we come from the personality point of view iam an Aries http://www.elore.com/Astrology/Study/aries.htm , if we look at it from the Chinese astrological point of view, than iam a fire dragon http://www.usbridalguide.com/special/chinesehoroscopes/Dragon.htm

“The key to the Dragon personality is that Dragons are the free spirits of the Zodiac. Conformation is a Dragon’s curse. Rules and regulations are made for other people.” -well nothing can be more true than my free spirit and the fact that iam a change agent… you can find your own description under the link above, at least interesting to read. If we add a good couple of years under communism, well surely was oil on the fire (dragon) ….

On the other hand we are just a little dust on earth, and if we dont cooperate, we can not make it alone. So more wisely next to the freedom we need something like respecting and understanding others. Have a nice evening! Tiny shred of thought from a little sunshine……

Yoga practice

honeypoison76 — Wed, 05 Nov 2008 20:50:09 +0000

I use my thoughts to bounce on your resistance, if its closer to truth it will create a spiral….you will be also thinking with me or much further…..

Did you think that life is just a chain of coincidences? Or is it a precisely planned master piece what we do not always understand, only if we look back and trying to see it with a completely detached eye. I believe its all a master piece and we have messages to others and others have to us. However its on such a subtle way that if we dont pay attention, we might skim over the most beautiful part of life. Reading from Max Strom i feel that yoga is a pure gift we can all have to enhance our life; just an appetizer: “Many overachievers know the concept of all or nothing. Explore the space between 0 and 10. Try practicing at level 7, not 10. This will develop sensitivity, patience, and kindness. “

Iam not sure what it does to you but it has such an alchemical effect on my life, i wish you all can experience this magic.

http://www.maxstrom.com/site/images/FindPeaceInYourYoga.pdf

Stockholm syndrome?

honeypoison76 — Sun, 05 Oct 2008 17:12:11 +0000

Reading an article in one of the few Hungarian newspapers i still read, made me think. I did not write for a while, but this was interesting enough to share. Jakupcsek – does not ring the bell to my non-Hungarian friends :-) is a famous tv reporter/presenter… she is 45 and pregnant with her 3rd child. She talks about her unique decision and knowing how obviously ambitious she is, i really got a full-filling answer for sg was always unclear till now…. How is an ambitious woman can devastatingly feel and desire for a big family with full of noise from the kids at the background and paralel accept that her brain needs a continuous mental challenge. I just simply call it ‘candy for the brain’….She talks in this article to those who give up all the rest of the life to be always on “show”/”tv”. Saying they may give up everything; as they fall into the Stockholm syndrome…..now this was the point when i really got on the topic, searched for this syndrome and was thinking…..actually what ever i look at as a matter of fact we do serve, at work, in the family , the friends….. so why would it differ to serve a child than to serve a team at work or a business interest….now the question is how can we combine both work and family and bring it into that famous balance i practice during yoga :-), nice evening to all of you!

Mine, yours, ours? does not matter just let’s take care of it…

honeypoison76 — Mon, 28 Apr 2008 18:46:12 +0000

Keukenhof…….. 7 millions hand planted tulips, wow… it was just amazing to walk 3 hours in that beautiful park, when i really felt its all ours, the beauty of the whole world, we are invaluably rich! You can see the link to this aesthetic tour on the flickr (left corner of the page). 15 km footpath, extra orchid garden – in case if we think the modest and pure beauty of the tulip-universe would not be 100% satisfying. Well for me it was :-). But just let me spend a bit of time on the topic as it made me think…. People says this is my country and iam so proud, let me just ask a question: could it be my country as well? And if yes or no why? I really opt for the yes, as the main thing we all do we pay tremendous amount of tax here to keep the country running as it does, very well. Which i do not mind to do however i feel that i work as much as any other “good citizen”. Do you think people who had the luck to be born here, are doing anything more than me? Maybe some of them they do much less? Where than the secret lies? I think it hides in the way people take care of their environment and the way they take care of people around them. If an “alien” – to repeat the terminology we – Westerners used to be called in China, :-), does not harm its environment and further more takes care of it, i would say can be a 100% accepted partner in the world “mine, yours, ours” game. Did you approach it with my degree of freedom? Enjoy, the world is yours!!! I give you Hungary if you take care of it. :-)))

Taking pleasure out of work

honeypoison76 — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 20:07:25 +0000

Today was indeed a very happy day for me. I just finished my project with such a great success that the management team has closed the meeting with clapping hands. :-) Lots of hard work behind, motivating people, showing them that they are so great ….all paid off. When you work for HR, you do good things for people but somehow you can not show hard results and facts. People hired and staying, some happy some not, than they leave… In business you can build something which stays, you can make your footprint there and build something nice. I love to touch ways of working, challenge the status quo, change things and of course all these are fun only when its in a great company of others. The biggest pleasure of all was that i made a very good friend within the project team who has not been 100% fairly recognised. Today the boss sent an email with clear appreciation showing recognition and thanking for the person. That 3 sentences really made my day… OK now time to sleep as last night i managed to work till 2am :-) but was fun so all is good. Just wanted to say hi to you, in the virtual mysterious world of the unknown. The fun part will start next week, we go to Egypt to warm up our bums :-) and snorkel a bit with the fishes. Hope u r all well, big hugs, Maria

To bring the best out….

honeypoison76 — Thu, 13 Mar 2008 21:31:30 +0000

of everything. I just love the idea to bring the best out of people, out of life, out of an opportunity, out of my work and a situation. Probably years back i had a bit of rebellious desire. Its fading away. May be the gray hair is replacing? ;-) Just think that all people has beautiful and less beautiful sides, however they need to manifest both one way or an other but the object might not be determined. If we would ask from each other “would you like to be the one i share my good part or would you like to to choose to share the less good part” i think we would all say of course, how obvious that we want to have the good one. Seems the choice does not look like so simple, we may end up with the end result of 50%-50%. For me is transparent when i bring out the bad side and how to behave to catch the good one, and it is not my lucky or unlucky days, all about do i care enough to try to touch the one which will help, will smile, will give? We know so much, read about this topic under “social intelligence”, conscious decision making process, high influential skill but just keeping it simple, it is our own choice how we want to see the given person or the given circumstances. I played with looking at the same situation with a changed perception, its great fun. Yin and yang, black and white game….

Asian fever

honeypoison76 — Sun, 09 Mar 2008 10:32:34 +0000

Though i told to mum i will write in hungarian, this is a thought i may keep in english just in case :-), i do not want to make her worry…. but as a fact i got an Asian fever back, no no not physically, i just would love to go back and live there again. I guess my grounding or foundation is completely lost any linkage to a country. What do i miss today? The great support what we can get from people (cleaning, cooking, baby sitting etc.), the asian food, oh yammie :-), and the warm weather. But of course all these are the simple surface and not the deep truth. The gentleness of people is unique compare to us, Europeans. It is like you need your shot, like an addiction you start with and after a while it always will show up unexpectedly. Is not that great that we have the whole world and it is only up to us where to live? I think most of us does not realize this great freedom, which gives wings to a dragon and fills him/her up with so much energy. You know you can go, you can restart, you can have a “tabula rasa” in this sense http://encarta.msn.com/dictionary_1861698701/tabula_rasa.html and that is where the energy comes from. You feel that your environment does not keep you twined with an unwanted behaviour, situation or with something you would like to grow above or you already did. It is so spiritually enlightening, i wish i could give this as a present or a nurturing food to your soul. This might be behind the superficial surface. So having it said i wish you a marvellous charging Sunday with love,

Maria

All about attitude….

honeypoison76 — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 21:35:14 +0000

One thing you can definitely pick up when you try to think about a country. For instance in China, relationship is one of the key drive of the nation. Kinda above of everything else, or first priority. I was thinking what seems to show a pattern in Holland well, that is still a paradox, one hand i have seen a very promising statistics saying people are one of the most happy here, http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/lif_hap_net-lifestyle-happiness-net however i also see that people tend to complain about details a lot. It came into my mind again as i have seen an excellent movie called Mighty. I wish i could just show it to people who has everything, which might need for happiness, to share its all about your attitude. No matter what happens you always have a choice and it is only yours. So all of us has the most important freedom, the opportunity to take the best out of the situation. Love, Maria

Windy, rainy, cold wkend

honeypoison76 — Sat, 01 Mar 2008 10:03:06 +0000

but warm inside in all the sense…. I dont know how God is giving us the love, but he was very generous when he arrived to me. I feel so much filled with love ~ perhaps Mircea is part of the magic and my very nice friends, may be i should get 10 kids to give them :-). Will write a bit Hungarian to mum, lucky you if you speak both my dear Hungarian English speaking friends :-)…. you can see my ex yoga studio in Shanghai through the link below – need to click on “about us” and the second Fuxing Lu studio is really great :-))), so i switch a bit to hun language

Most egy picit magyarul is irok, hogy anya/apa is elolvashassa. Holnap joga nap lesz 10-4 ig, mar nagyon varom. A joga szuper jol kiegyensulyozza az embert, varazsereje van. Probaltam kitalalni, hogy hogyan mukodik de meg nem fejtettem meg 100% osan. Arra mar rajottem, hogy mivel az aszanak (pozok), eleg nehezek es nagy figyelmet igenyelnek, (hogy az ember jol csinalja es ne seruljon), ez jo taktika arra, hogy teljesen elterelje az ember figyelmet. Igy a mindenapi gondolatvilag, munka, megoldandok kinnt rekednek :-) es pihen az ember lelke-agya. Mindemellett meg azt is eszlelem, hogy vmi titkos modon hat a bekesseg (shanti) vagyra, nagyon felerositi azt es eleri, hogy az ember olyan “tibeti” bolcsesseggel probaljon megoldani elethelyzeteket….. Jo hogy kinaban elkezdtem jogazni, gyonyoru helyen itt a link, van fennt a studiokrol kep ha rakattintotok az “about us” ra es legordultok a jobb oldalon, kulonosen a masodig a Fuxing uti studionak van hiper hangulata:

http://www.yplus.com.cn/indexe.php

Millio puszi nektek, oleles es szep hetveget!

Nice wkend, hugs,

Maria